Sunday, January 6, 2008

Forget the Ex

Well I am here to tell you that the X Man is hot. Not to mention smart & interesting, so I would say that it was an excellent re-entry into dating. I found that I have little patience with the painful getting to know you questions like "So what is your favorite..." but I suppose they are a necessary evil when you're sitting there trying to think of something to talk about next. The down side to this guy is that he smokes (which surprisingly doesn't bother my sister, previously a staunch "smoking is vile" proponent...I must grill her on this.) but before the cigarette there was kissing & it was amazing, so I think I have thrown this one rule of mine (no smokers) out the window for now. So we're standing outside of this bar making a spectacle of ourselves with the 1st (rather lengthy) kiss, enough of a spectacle that our server had our tab ready when we came back in, saying "I thought you were probably ready to go" even though most of our drinks were left, and we're mid kiss & (get this) he growls. I kid you not, a low back-of-the-throat growl. I almost laughed out loud, but then there was more kissing so I got distracted.

2 comments:

alstramira said...

Well I need more info re: the smoking thing - ie- how often, how many, when, would he ever consider quitting??? The answers to these questions would affect whether or not I think he should get a second date. But at least you got lippage on date 1!!!

Anonymous said...

look, i've just met some smokers who are great people. trust me, i'm way too cheap to ever take up smoking. anyway, 2nd date??